OMGYes - A Guide To Better Female Masturbation

Are you masterturbating wrong?  

You’ve heard of (probably experienced) the Wage Gap and Gender Gap but what about the Orgasm Gap? Historically women have been on the wrong side of that chasm too.

OMGYes Is a website designed to teach women that female masturbation is an act of self love, assures us that almost everyone does it and that we can do it even better.

The last time you had sex did you cum? The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior found that 91% of men orgasmed during their most recent sexual encounter but just 64% of women did. Climax equality is the new black and OMGYes is it’s online purveyor.

Nothing less than the next wave of an unfinished sexual revolution
— The Sunday Times

First Wave feminists were more interested in the right to vote, inherit and own land and  according to Freud they were also frigid.

Second Wave Feminists fought for equality in the form of the Equal Rights Amendment (which still hasn’t been passed) and saw the female orgasm as a sign of a woman’s autonomy both politically and sexually. The ‘60’s Women’s Liberation Movement viewed sexual freedom as much an act of defiance as it was the pursuit of pleasure.  

Third Wave Feminists wanna do all that AND cum….

There’s so much that’s been left unsaid, unasked, and unknown. All because of a taboo that, we believe, will look absurd in a few decades—the same way taboos from the 1950’s about oral sex and homosexuality are absurd to us now. We want to accelerate that transition. OMGYes is an entirely new way to explore fascinating, useful and fun information that’s been uncovered in new research. Let’s lift the veil and take an honest look at the specific ways women actually find pleasure.
— OMGYes

I’m sure the site gets plenty of male traffic because a lot of men (many many men) like to jerk off while watching women masterbate. But OMGYes is not intended for the male gaze. It is literally a “How To” with wonderfully ordinary women- whatever that means - demonstrating how to “edge” and “rim” away the orgasm gender divide.

32% of women say they have difficulty orgasming because they’re worried about how they look while doing it. Which makes tragic sense when you consider that since the birth of porn female masterbation has been a tool used to enhance men’s sexual pleasure not women’s.

The site smashes taboos surrounding female sexuality and treats the female orgasm with an unprecedented seriousness: tackling the complexities surrounding the ways in which women experience pleasure with honesty and no shame
— Marie Claire

OMGYes Clearly states that the site is not just for owners of vaginas. It is also for people who have sex with people who own vaginas. In fact if you have a vagina and think the person who’s playing with it could up their game you can enroll them as a gift. Or for a one time payment of £29 treat someone you love (spoiler alert: all my vagina owning friends - Merry Christmas!) by giving them access to all 62 “episodes” with discounted pricing on coming (pun intended) seasons.

Trust me, they’ll be gratified you did.


Article by Anna Quick-Palmer

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